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Why Every Husband Needs A Girlfriend - Marriage Counselor

A marriage counselor has explained why married men need to have a ‘girlfriend’.  According to Frank Adofoli a marriage counselor from Ghana, all couples who intend to make their marriage work need to make sure the man of the house has a girlfriend.  Adofoli is not necessarily encouraging cheating in marriage, instead he gave an insight into why you need to rediscover the ‘boo, bae’ you married and why you turned her from girlfriend to wife. “Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with. You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys. The key doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and factors such as dirt, rain, change in weather, etc may cause the lock to rust. So it’s important to oil and maintain it. A similar fate occurs in our relationships.  You get married to that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend. As time goes on, most ladies assume t...

Should I tell my husband that I did it with his brother?

I am not proud to say this but I have been dying with this for the past few months now. When I was pregnant few months back my husband traveled for a course and asked his younger brother to come stay with me so that I can at least have someone to send errand . He was very nice and humble, he will gist with me ,cook for me and drive me to the hospital for anti natal, I started getting use to him , sometimes we will gist and dose off in my room , or in the sitting room.  He will take me out and make me feel loved, the boy was everything my husband was not , so I started lusting after him, I wanted more, I wanted a man to hold me in my condition, make love to me and make me happy.  When ever I call my husband he will never pick or claim he is busy . So I taught of what to do, so one day I went into Emeka's room when I knew he would be coming out of the bath, so immediately he came out, I stripped naked and went on my knees, begging him to touch me. He quickly dra...